Women Connect Relationship Chat: Brokeness and Healing by Dorcas Asogba

The first thing a broken spouse experience is loneliness. It is a state of total emptiness. This emotion is within and hidden and only a true and pure love can cure it.

Regardless of the number of people available, the heart is still very empty, imagine a heart that has been butchered with negative words which has destroy the self-worth and self esteem even the value they  stand on, no longer holds.

 This lonely heart is vulnerable and is desperate to feel the vacuum with true love. But how do you see them? How does the society see them?

They are seen as second hand citizen.

They are judge and criticized

Some sees them has irresponsible, they never considered putting themselves in your shoe and imagine how it fits; whatever you pass through is viewed with a mere eye.  At that point in time this is how 

At my lonely time I was empty

At my lonely time I was hopeless

In my lonely state I find unusual silence

Loneness makes me weep

Loneliness makes me aggressive

Loneliness makes me react

I hunger for love

I hunger for a cure

I made irrational moves, my acts were desperate

Loneliness has brought my self esteem down

Loneliness has killed the giant in me

Loneliness told me am a failure and I see it that way

Loneliness has given me no other option than suicide

Suicide! Suicide!! Suicide!!!

Since all my effort seems empty

And my scars means

Suicide is all my heart yarn for

Then my soul will find rest

This is the sincere deepest thought of a broken soul, your part to play in this situation is to show love and not pity, accept them for who they have become and help them be a better person. Whenever you come across a single parent (single mum, single dad) widow, divorcee, understand that there is more to what you see. It is buried beneath that smile. Only a true heart can search it. Be careful to pass your judgment because you don’t know what life has for you.

By Dorcas Asogba 

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